Breakup advice

We all at some stage in our lives seek a little breakup advice. As the song goes “breaking up is hard to do.” Do you believe that? In my opinion it is a tough and uncomfortable situation to be in, no matter which way you look at it. In some situations it might seem easy, however in reality someone does get hurt and has to cope with the heartache and that’s the crux of the matter.

Every break up is different and each needs a special kind of advice to be given. We are all human beings and all of us have learned to cope with situations, we all experience feelings – be it happiness or sadness, you must also remember that people react in different ways. Some run away and hide the hurt of a breakup. Some people don’t understand what went wrong. Others want to fix things and some people feel like their world has crumbled and fallen apart.

In giving advice it can be a very broad spectrum to cover. First of all I would like to hear your situation and I’d need a little background regarding your breakup. So the best advice I can give you at this stage as an outsider is to first of all take a good deep look at yourself. (Inside out, that is) If one can look objectively at oneself and see your faults as well as your good points, you can then start figuring things out for yourself. Ask yourself questions like, what is it that I really want and what is it that I really need? What’s important to me? Do I want to get over a breakup? Do I want advice how to fix my relationship? What exactly is it that I am in need of to help me? When you’ve sorted yourself out and this is something only you can do, no one else knows exactly how you feel and what you think. I found it best to write down all the things that came to mind when sorting myself out. By writing things down, you let the negative as well as positive energy flow through your veins and out onto paper. It really does help to clear things up a little easier.

Good breakup advice can only come from someone that has been there and experienced a true breakup. If you have actually gone through this, then you have a better understanding of what’s going on in the other persons mind. You can also then give someone good tips and ideas of how you felt and how you solved your fears and issues regarding your breakup. By sharing and giving advice, we are all helping one another in the end. By doing this we are actually enriching a whole lot of people who were perhaps feeling as if they have been let down. A helping hand is always near and think of it this way by going through your breakup and by learning how to pick up the pieces again, you will be able to guide someone else to a happier conclusion of their breakup. You may even save some lost souls and show them life is great, no matter what!